A Child is like a tree that needs to be cared for. Parents that bring children in to this world must assume the responsibility to care for their children to the end. Treat your child as if he or she is a tree, Put a rope around that tree and hold it so that it grows up straight and until it has developed strong roots. Hold on to that rope and do not allow your child to fall in the wrong path as the tree might falsely imagine that it is the Sun that is shining from the south and be inclined to grow in that direction.  Once you feel the roots are strong you can let go of the rope but leave it there.